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Marriage: Pleasurable act and art of sex

Marriage is a combination of friendship, love, and the intimacy of a physical union. Marriage is the socially recognized union of two or more people. Marriage is the foundation of the family. In turn the family is the basic unit of society. Thus while marriage is a personal relationship, it also has a social significance. There are many reasons why we should be married: social security, comfort, companionship, love, even sex. When two people spend a lot of time together or want to spend a whole lot more time together, there is a sense of mutual trust and life long commitment to share and care for each other’s need.

Marriage - it is the celestial bond that culminates and consummates via the natural urge of sex. Sex undoubtedly is an important bonding component in marriage. It is healthy and normal and an expression of a healthy normal relationship. It becomes a priority when couples are relaxed and stress is a distant memory. They have time and energy to devote to each other. Although many experts believe that a majority of marriages end today because of financial reasons; problems with sex and sexuality rank high, too.

Human sexuality is not incidental to life. The covenant of a marriage is a way to accomplish, at a most profoundly human level, both the mutual support that love brings to a couple and the fruitfulness of that love in their children.

Human sexuality is directed to the marital love of man and woman. In marriage, the physical intimacy of the spouses becomes a sign and pledge of their deeper personal relationship with each other. Sexual intimacy, because it is total and exclusive, is not intended to be casual but life-long and life-giving. It is an expression of a life-long commitment that allows the spouses to give themselves freely and completely to each other in a way that is both supportive to one another and open to the transmission of life.

What are some of the things that cause no sex marriages?: We tend to put sex last on our daily “to do” list. Work, kids, activities, long hours of “day-into-night,” all lead to exhaustion and exhaustion leads to lack of sex drive. How romantic can you be when you can barely keep your eyes open?

• Low desire is the top sexual problem in marriages. Couples often avoid sex because their sex life has become dissatisfying. Communication is the key to great sex. Communicate with one another about your expectations, your fears, your desires, your concerns, and be honest! This is necessary for all couples, newly weds and older, long married couples, too.
• A reason for no sex is the “anger syndrome”. Can people make love with a person with whom they are angry? Anger is one of the least productive emotions. It drains you and keeps you from living. Who’s right or who’s wrong doesn’t matter in the long run and snuggling up to “anger” just doesn’t feel as good as cuddling with your mate. Remember: Anger isn’t kissable, touchable, or sexy!
• Lack of time is one of the most often cited reasons for no sex. One of the most common myths is that sex has to take a certain amount of time. Of course, leisurely sex can be wonderful; but it’s a luxury that few couples can afford on a regular basis.
• Another top myth is that sex must be spontaneous. It’s a fact of modern life that we plan and schedule everything that is a priority. Date night is popular with many couples, but some experts advocate planning frequent very brief sexual encounters.

If stress, overwork, exhaustion, or fighting is not the reason for lack of sex, then it may be time to see a doctor. Health problems, both physical and mental, can cause a drop in sex drive.

Get a complete physical check-up and be frank with your doctor. Physical problems from diabetes, thyroid, menstrual cycles, menopause, prostate, arthritis, etc. can be affecting a women’s libido. On the other hand, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, male impotence and related health conditions can very easily affect the sexual quotient of a male counterpart. Depression also affects sexual desire. Tell your doctor if being sad or down is a continuous feeling. Doctors are willing to help; just be open and honest about your sexual problems. This is not the time to be embarrassed. There is rarely anything she or he hasn’t heard before.

Sexuality in marriage is a great gift. It is a gift to be enjoyed and nurtured. Marriages that don’t maintain their sexual vitality are very much at risk. Plan together to protect and promote your sex life.

About the author
Jack Clive
http://www.viagrapunch.com

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